Lost in Tradition: A Reflection on Compassion and Humanity

A poignant case once came to my attention, involving a person grieving a profound loss. The deceased, due to certain cultural traditions, underwent an embalming process. However, she also adhered to the religious traditions of another faith, seeking solace and support from its practices when living. In their time of need, the family sought additional liturgical rites, yet they were refused on the grounds that the embalming procedure defied the religious customs, norms, and dogma of that faith.

In her moment of grief, the family came to me, questioning why and how a supposed holy person could refuse such a request. The deceased was deeply involved with the congregation, having contributed and being recognized as a member. How could this individual be denied support as she transitioned to the other side? What kind of person would deny such humanity?

It struck me that perhaps this refusal came from someone who valued rules and dogma over humanity. For them, ensuring conformity and adherence to their religiosity, which in truth is a false ego attachment, was more important than reaching out with compassion to those in need. Where is the compassion?

This is precisely where human beings fall short. They become obsessed with their own policies and procedures, and in the end, who truly misses out? It is humanity that is lost amidst the trivialities of human affairs.

(c)2024 John Piedrahita